Biblical Counseling Process

“Scripture does not reduce the care of souls to predictable steps or specific techniques. If it did, we would rarely pray and we would have little reason to listen. But Scripture does reveal wise love and real help. Lauren brings these two together in a way that gives practical direction to strengthen care for others.”

“Recently someone asked me to describe how to tie a necktie. While I am proficient at tie tying, I found it very difficult to describe the process. In the same way, while I have counseled for thousands of hours, I sometimes struggle when trying to describe the particulars of the counseling process to my students. Lauren Whitman's book fills this need as she describes the particulars of the process of counseling. As I read, I often found myself saying, ‘Yes, that's how we do it.’ I anticipate that this resource will benefit many as we strive to faithfully shepherd the souls of God's people.”

“Each person we counsel is unique and the challenges they face have their own complexities, but each counseling experience has a beginning, a middle, and an end. Whitman provides an excellent framework that guides the overall flow of counseling while acknowledging and leaving room for the individualization that comes with each person. She offers a big picture overview of the process and dives deep into details on key components of counseling—first session, transitions, closing session, etc. This book answers a myriad of frequently asked questions regarding the practical matters of counseling. Students of biblical counseling and new counselors will have answers to these burning questions and experienced counselors will also find insights and tips to hone their skills as ministers of God’s Word. This book will be a required read for my students.”

“Two things especially stand out in the refreshingly clear prose of Whitman’s contribution to biblical counseling literature. First, Whitman leads by example in applying specific Scriptures to specific, vivid counseling situations. Second, she provides simple, doable foci for counselors at each stage of counseling and clear benchmarks for where each stage begins and ends. I commend this highly accessible, gracefully written book to anyone looking to do vocational biblical counseling!”

“As the biblical counseling movement has matured and grown, there has been a significant need for solid teaching on biblical counseling methodology. Counselors and helpers can have good theology and training, but they need to be equipped for the actual work of counseling—how to sit and listen, how to structure their sessions, and so on. Lauren Whitman has written a brief but packed resource that fills that gap marvelously. It will undoubtedly be my new go-to guide in training helpers and counselors.”

“The process of biblical counseling is neither rigidly scripted nor loosely improvised. But what does it look like in practice? In this much-needed book, Lauren Whitman gives shape to skillful love as she charts a wise path between those two extremes, carefully explaining the major tasks associated with each stage of counseling. Full of practical examples that vivify these major tasks, Lauren’s book is an ideal resource for training lay counselors and for use in graduate biblical counseling programs.”

“The moment I finished A Biblical Counseling Process I added it to our counseling training program. Rightly interpreting people’s experience has often been a far more difficult task for biblical counselors than rightly interpreting the text of Scripture, and Lauren’s work raises our ability to accurately and helpfully understand the people God places before us.”

“Lauren captures the principles for thoughtfully and wisely walking alongside a hurting individual. She demonstrates how each stage builds on each other, along with practical illustrations and examples. It is a wonderful resource for those looking to better understand the process of counseling.”

“Simple structures make complex tasks more manageable. We listen better, empathize more accurately, and offer more helpful guidance when we have a process we trust. Lauren provides clear tasks and manageable assessments for the beginning, middle, and end of the counseling process. Whether you are a new counselor learning ropes or an experienced counselor reviewing the basics, A Biblical Counseling Process will help you structure your thinking as you serve as God's ambassador to those coming to you for counsel.”

“This slim volume is a weighty resource. Lauren Whitman’s outline of the process of biblical counseling is methodical, giving a structure and a reason to follow it. It is biblical, rooting that method in Scriptural truth. It is practical, with examples that ground us in real life. New counselors will find a pattern to help them begin. Experienced counselors will find many fresh insights. This outstanding resource fills a significant gap in our biblical counseling library.”

“While most counseling books give you principles and stories, this one is unique because it teaches you the important parts of a counseling process. But it does this in a gospel-centered and practical way that I haven’t seen often. If you are a counselor, your knowledge of how to help your counselees will grow considerably, your use of Scripture will be strengthened, and your hope in Christ will made more firm. Who could ask for more? This book has taught me much, and it will also teach and edify you!”

“Reading A Biblical Counseling Process will help shape you into a better counselor and provide you with direction toward more effective counseling sessions. With a focus on knowing the person rather than solving a problem, this book offers distinctly biblical direction coupled with well-defined, compassionate applications of professional practices. An excellent primer for formal construction of the counseling process from start to finish”

“Biblical counseling is nuanced work, and I’ve often wondered if I’m 'doing it right.' Thankfully, what Lauren has written here is both intuitive and practical—she answered questions I didn’t even know I had about the process, then offered examples to demonstrate real-life counseling exchanges. Counselors of all experience levels will benefit from reading this book. I’ll be keeping it nearby for quick reference and session prep!”